Family Management

How many of you will stay with your parents when you get married?? I am one of them who is staying with parents, after I married Shino last year. It has been a year plus we are staying under the same roof, and thankfully both my parents and Shino are staying together peacefully without giving me any problem at all, not even a single small problem from them, which I considered it as my greatest success in my life.

Before I got married, many people told me not to stay together with my own parents. They said, the relationship between my wife and my parents will become worse as time goes by. I think they have their points but I still believe Shino will do all her best to avoid this thing to happen. Also, I know my parents are not difficult to get along with, they are open-minded in some ways, and most importantly they know what respect is.

It has been a year plus we are staying together, and all I can say is that their relationship is getting better and better, I think my parents are getting more closer to my wife than me. For instance, my mum will share her worries and problems with Shino instead of her own son. Obviously my mum trusts Shino more than her own son, which I think is the best for all of us. Frankily, I have been working very hard to achieve this. I have been doing all I can to make them to get closer and better, and I am also trying to distance myself from my mum.

Because of my plan, everytime when we come to decision making, Shino will stand by my mum's side or the other way around, because they thought they are from the same gang and I am their opposition. This concept has been injected into their mindset by me. This is one of the most wonderful thing that I have done to my marriage, and it really helps to avoid any quarrel or fight between my wife and my mum. Hello, they are good friends now, and I am their enemy, but I don't mind. This is how I manage my current situation.