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Before she can continue with the next sentence, I have my lips lying on hers softly to shut her up. Combination of hard and soft rock musics are playing one and another all night long but I can’t remember those songs because my focus is on Jenn’s head to toe, I am trying to figure out how she would look like without a single piece of cloth covering her body. Before I realise, she has extended her tongue to my ‘territory’, and immediately I am captured. I start to lose concentration on her body as I have to battle with her in the tongue twisting war.

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She said she is hoping for more, more than just hugging in the lounge. She said she wants some personal time with me, she wanted to know me better, from the outside to the inside...

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Tiuniasing :: “I thought about that too. If I can’t drive you back, then we will have to share the queen sized bed in my room.”

I was a step closer to take her to my bed on that night.

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A church wedding

Before my wife converted to a Christian, I attended a friend's church wedding and I find church wedding is very nice and beautiful wedding.

I do not know how many of you have attended a church wedding before, but it was my first time to such a special occasion. When we arrived at the church, we were welcomed by the fellow brothers and sisters with the warmest greetings and welcome. The church is fully air-conditioned and the ambiance was very soothing, so it was actually very cozy in it.

Like what we could see in the TV, the bride were held by her father into the church, handed over her to the bridegroom, and followed by "Yes, I do" and rings exchange part. Then, everyone stood up and blessed the newly married-couple and finally songs were played and sung with the musical band. I sang together with them though I had not sung it before, I just followed the lyrics displayed on the screens and music, some very easy songs. When I saw the band, I was imagining how good if my future children can be part of this, either the married-couple or one of the band performer. I started to think church is actually a very good place for kids in their growing and development because of the activities the church organise, because of the positive things that brought by the church, and many more.

When I got home on that day, I told everything to my wife, I told her that I was hoping to bring my children to church in the future. She was still a free-thinker like me then. She did not comment much, instead, she told me a story of her boss who is a Christian, but the boss doesn't really have a positive attitude. She reminded me that not all Christians will have good and positive attitude. I kind of agreed with her, we really can't expect all to be good or all to be bad for everything.

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Love of home town, Malim Nawar

It was another half a day travelling on PLUS expressway, to Kampar to attend a meeting in Grand Kampar Hotel and came back to KL after that.

Kampar was not a new place to me, in fact, my home town is only 10-15 minutes drive from Kampar, it is called Malim Nawar. Malim Nawar is just a small village with majority Chinese residents. A few decades ago, Malim Nawar was known for tin (timah). Most of the area here are of white sand, and there were many mobile tin-mining machines (铁船) around, and needless to say almost all the Chinese here were tin miners. The Chinese here were fucking rich when tin were highly on demand; My late-paternal grandfather was not rich although he was a tin miner too, because he spent most of his income on opium and consequently his family was one of the poorest in the village. I could tell from how the house looked like.

I moved out from Malim Nawar when I was two or three year-old, seriously I do not have much memory about the place. All I remember are what I did everytime we went back to hometown for Chinese New Year and Qing Ming. I think my feelings were so much different from my cousins who had been staying there until they grew much older. I called it hometown, they called it home, so much different.

I used to fucking du-lan with my late-grandfather because he did not leave anything to my dad, as a result my dad had to work very hard in order to have a better day and to give us everything we wanted. I was thinking if my grandfather did not take opium, probably I could have been living in Damansara Heights now, driving a Ferrari and a CEO to a couple listed companies, and I could have been riding my superbike every Sunday morning back to Malim Nawar for breakfast and to visit the relatives there, and to show off to the neighbours how well I have been doing in the big city. But I can't because I was born in a normal family, I have to start working hard from zero like my dad. I blamed my grandfather for not leaving anything to my dad, that's why I did not have a shortcut to success.

Then, I was told that my grandfather had got a cureless disease, and he had to take opium to stop the pain, to feel better, t live longer. He died a year after I was born, he died of the disease. My parents told me that, then, I forgave him. Life is fragile, we must appreciate every moment that we have, we must show our love to whoever we love before it is too late, because life is fragile and we really do not know what will happen in the next second. I always think about the loved ones ahead of me; My wife, my parents and the in-laws, they are much more important than me at anytime. I could give all I have to them without hesitation.

Dear, I love you...

A low EQ woman

"Mang zhang" as in Chinese, means bad temper or easily gotten mad in English. But I have a better word for it, it is the title of this post, low EQ.

Have you ever thought about what would have happen if your spouse was like a lived hand grenade all the time with the safety handle removed?? You will never know when your spouse would explode and blast you into thousand pieces, at anytime and anywhere, be it rainy or sunny sky, be your father is a male or female.

Everyday, you live in the darkness and fear, because you do not know when your nightmare will arrive. You dare not to speak to your spouse because he or she will show the colour to you at anytime. You do not bother to discuss anything with your spouse because you know there will be no any agreement reached at the end of the discussion as your spouse is the master and you are the slave, whom has to follow everything what the master says else you will kena kao kao from your spouse.

I have a friend who just married not long ago, is considered unfortunate because he is facing something like what I have written above. I found it out unintentionally when we went for clubbing during Chinese New Year. Previously, I did not know that that is his wife's true colour until the last outing. It is lucky for me to know about it so that I know how to face or avoid this bitch in the future, but it was unlucky for my friend because his wife had ruined his day, suppose be a happy moment for him as we were out for clubbing.

The matter started as my friend asked his wife where the new club is, his wife impatiently told him the location. I guessed he was unsured of the location as it was too brief, so he clariffied with his wife again and immediately his wife increased her tone and diu my friend which I think it was very rude and unfriendly among couple, she said something like this annoyingly,"DIIIUUUUuuu... So easy also don't know meh??"

I was standing next to him, I have to say the direction she gave was too brief to understand. Both my friend and I couldn't get what she meant, that was why he asked his wife again. Because of that, her wife got annoyed and diu like a mad cow. My friend felt paiseh because of what his wife had done in front of me, and I was kind of lending my sympathy to him for his mood being spoilt by his wife just because of nothing. In the club, three of us did not talk much. I was speechless througout the night because of the surprise brought by the bitch, my friend felt sorry for that, and the wife did not know about it. But she was curious with why we were so fucking quiet in the club. Perhap she thought we were busy scanning for sexy girls in the club, but I can guranteely say we did not, we were hoping time would run faster so that we could leave that place as soon as possible.

Luckily my wife's EQ isn't as low as this bitch.

I am my wife's...

Before I married, I had no idea why people have the fear of getting married. I am a bit slow, I have to marry and discover myself before I know about their fear. Perhaps most people will ask around about the changes or differences before and after marry, I never did that before I signed the registration of marriage.

Apparently, there are a lot of differences and I finally understood why people have the fear of gettig hitch. But to me, it isn't a big deal because I had gotten ready before I proposed to my then-girlfriend or wife now, Shino. For the men, the their responsibility has been much more than ever, as someone's husband, and I strongly feel it now. I am a married-man myself, I could feel what all other men feel.

You must be wondering, what excatly the big deal of it?? Basically there isn't any big deal, but my resposibility and roles are getting more now than anyone else who are still enjoying their bachelorhood, I used to be one of them too. I was only my parent's son, but now, besides my parent's son, I am also my wife's dot dot dot. Let me list down the dots here for your reference:-

I am my wife's driver. Everytime we go out together in a car, I am the one who drives, and I think I am forever her chauffeur and I am willing to drive her around until the day I can't drive;

I am my wife's petrol refuel worker. Whenever her small little Swift runs low in petrol, I will automatically drive her car to the nearest petrol station for refuelling, or she will 'order' me to refuel;

I am my wife's nutritionist. As an athelete that I am, I am more health conscious than anybody else because I have to maintain at a high form all the time for a good performance in the basketball court. Because of that, I always remind my wife what kind of food we can consume often and what we should avoid;

I am my wife's fitness trainer. Again, as an athelete that I am, I know how to keep our body look slim an good. I realised that most married-women will be putting on weight quickly due to happy life that that's given by their spouse, therefore it is important to have a personal trainer to make sure my wife always look good. If she doesn't (look good), then it is my fault because I did not perform well on my job as her personal fitness trainer;

I am my wife's microphone and it couldn't be wrong. Everytime Shino has something in her heart, I am always the first person that she will look for and tell to. I feel grateful to be her microphone;

I am my wife's GPS. My job allows me to travel to everywhere in the country freely, so I knew a lot of places and the direction to get there too. My wife's cellphone is GPS ready, but still she will call me for directions everytime she wants to get somewhere because she trusts me more than her own GPS;

I am my wife's bodyguard. Two days ago, she saw a cockroach in the bathroom when she wanted to go for shower. She was so scared and screamed for help. As her personal bodyguard, I rushed to the bathroom, got two pieces of tissue-papers and caught the cockroach, and threw it into the toilet bowl and flushed it;

I am my wife's WII's partner. We are now enjoying coffee in OldTown White Coffee, Equine Part Jusco, she just went to the game shop for some new games and I am expecting that she will ask me to play the new games with her when we get home later, let's see,

I am my wife's foreman and mechanic, plumbing worker, electical technician, computer technician, housework handyman, and;

I am my wife's sex provider, do you need me to further elaborate on it?? And undoutedly, I am my wife's good husband. Please ask her if you do not believe it.

Video Game Console

Does anyone of you have a video game console at home, or maybe two or more?? If you are married and you don't have one, I suggest you to buy one quickly to get rid of your wife nagging. Hahaa...

Dude, if your wife or girlfriend is a video game lover, I congratulate you because you are same as me, we can have peaceful day at home. It is so good if our spouse love video games because:-

- When you make her mad, you can buy the latest video game for her and she will be fine with you;

- If you need to go out late at night, all you need to do is to make her to play video games, so that she won't remember to ring you if you haven't come home;

- When she is playing with her favourite games, it is the best time to blog like what I am doing now.

As far as I remember, I have at least three game consoles such as Nintendo WII, Nintendo DS, and a PSP at home. I am planning for a PS3, because of blu-ray. Shino have just bought two of her favourite games, a Harvest Moon - Tree of Tranquility and a Lost in Blue - Ship Wrecked. She is happily whacking the Lost in Blue now so that I can enjoy my total personal time here, writing about gossips, looking for fights in Innit, chatting with chicks over instant messengers and so on. Thanks to the video game console inventors.

To fuck without any restriction and distraction

If you ask me if it is good to stay with our parents after we get married, my answer is 'NO'. I realised this because I personally felt the cons of staying together with them. In this entry, I'm gonna tell the reasons why I don't agree on this idea.

In my previous entry, I have written about how I manage to make my wife and my own mother to get along well. Some people said, if both of them have the same channel, most probably there won't be any problem for them. Hello, don't be so innocent and think that this two creatures can stay under the same roof without problem IF you do not do something about it. If you leave them alone, I can guarantee your house will turn into a battlefield very soon, be it same channel or the other way around, just because both of them are... betinas (women).

Since the two of my betinas can stay peacefully under the same roof, why don't I continue to stay with my parents??

I have been staying together with my parents for the past thirty years, and seriously, I am fucking bored of it. No matter how good our mother is, a mother is always a mother, and the mother's nagging is something naturally born in them like their own boobies, which I strongly believe everyone should work hard to get rid of. My mother doesn't nag a lot, especially in the recent years, but still I get one or two from her sometimes. I am fucking du lan with it. I want a total peace.

After you have got married, you must not forget that you have invited another betina into your life. This is the main problem here. One betina is equivalent to one trouble, with two betinas, what can you expect?? Hahaa... You do the calculation on your own. So, in order make my life easier, I choose to move out as soon as possible to get rid of all the troubles. Seriously, the more betina you have in your life, the more headaches you will get too. If I were to stay with my wife outside, I only need to face one betina only.

Convenience is another problem when we are staying with the parents. Girls know this well. Most girls, including my wife, are so used to be braless and on sexy lingerie at home. Because of that, our bedroom is the only place that allows Shino to be on her ownself at home. It is so fucking limited, you know. Whenever she has been transformed into her ownself, she no longer wants to step out of the room. If she wants to take something outside the room, I am the one who has to give her a helping hand. I am not saying that I don't want to help, but it's damn du lan to be called when I am enjoying The Gutter's Posts.

The next thing is, distraction. There was once, when Shino was on top of me, like a cowboy riding the most handsome horse that almost hit the finish line. Suddenly my mother knocked the door and asked us to drink the juice, which had been blended with fruits and vege by her. Because of that call, the lady-cowboy and the handsome horse failed to reach the finish line and it turned out to be a bad day for both of us. In order to avoid things like this happen again in the future, to move out is the best thing that we can go for.

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Family Management

Family Management

How many of you will stay with your parents when you get married?? I am one of them who is staying with parents, after I married Shino last year. It has been a year plus we are staying under the same roof, and thankfully both my parents and Shino are staying together peacefully without giving me any problem at all, not even a single small problem from them, which I considered it as my greatest success in my life.

Before I got married, many people told me not to stay together with my own parents. They said, the relationship between my wife and my parents will become worse as time goes by. I think they have their points but I still believe Shino will do all her best to avoid this thing to happen. Also, I know my parents are not difficult to get along with, they are open-minded in some ways, and most importantly they know what respect is.

It has been a year plus we are staying together, and all I can say is that their relationship is getting better and better, I think my parents are getting more closer to my wife than me. For instance, my mum will share her worries and problems with Shino instead of her own son. Obviously my mum trusts Shino more than her own son, which I think is the best for all of us. Frankily, I have been working very hard to achieve this. I have been doing all I can to make them to get closer and better, and I am also trying to distance myself from my mum.

Because of my plan, everytime when we come to decision making, Shino will stand by my mum's side or the other way around, because they thought they are from the same gang and I am their opposition. This concept has been injected into their mindset by me. This is one of the most wonderful thing that I have done to my marriage, and it really helps to avoid any quarrel or fight between my wife and my mum. Hello, they are good friends now, and I am their enemy, but I don't mind. This is how I manage my current situation.